Please post me anonymously, I hail from Sunyani and my girlfriend is from Koforidua. We had our university education in Accra. I met my girlfriend on campus and we kicked off our relationship in our third year. We graduated together and decided to stay together in Accra after national service to search for employment opportunities. I haven’t had any success yet at finding a job but my girlfriend g...

Please hide my identity. I'm a 35 year old woman and really need help. So I will get straight to the point. I got out of a 5 year abusive relationship and quickly got involved with a 40 year old man. I feel like I liked him very quickly because he satisfied me ***ually like no other man has. Here is the problem, he introduced me to **** ***. Now he does weird things like sniffing my dirty underwe...

I've always been depressed. For as long as I can remember the past 7 years have been hell in my life. There were some really good times when the flame gets too hot you enjoy it, like spending time with your family or staying up with your one friend but every single night, for the past 7 years, not once did I feel I was good with life. I'm not suicidal anymore, I think it's ridiculous. I don't self...

I am a 24-year-old Cameroonian lady. I got engaged and my fiancé travelled to the United States about 1 year, 4 months ago. We truly love each other and my greatest wish is to marry this guy. He has been taking care of my bills and even my sister’s and he sends gifts to my family. I started dating this married man and the moment I really decided to end this and invited him for a talk, I d...

I was jumped by 3 women and robbed. But I’m way to embarr***ed to tell anybody including police. I was walking alone in a park just to get some fresh air. I don’t even live in a bad area. First it was just 1 girl who approached me. She asked if she could use my phone, I pulled my phone out to unlock it when I was hit right in the face from behind. I don’t remember it all but I remember falling dow...

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“Why are you quitting?” “Why did you leave your last job?” “Yikes! I made a mistake!” You may face those questions when quitting a job. The first are from employers. The last is from yourself. Before you quit, make sure it’s for the right reasons. Then tell the best one to present and future boss:

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I hate this. I don’t want to see what I’m writing. it’s weird to see my thoughts anywhere. Every day, An, I wake up with the incredible feeling of breaking my head and gouging out my eyes. I hate myself. Every day it hurts more and more to look at you. It hurts me that I can’t get close to you and it hurts me that I’m afraid you don’t love me anymore. I never meant for us to be apart. I guess this...

I Am Derrick from adenta and am currently owning my own workshop as a welder. I was in a relationship with this lady who happened to be my cl***mate back from school, she was a really sweet woman and we had a plan of settling down next year and even went for a wedding list from her parents. Well things started heating up when my job went bad to worse a year by now and my rent was also up and so i...

I’m wedded in church, with no option of divorce, but regrettably, my husband is a sadist. I have been in this dilemma for over 5 years of marital vows. Though ,when we met about 8 years ago, I hadn’t noticed any sign of sadism. However, the very night of our marital consumation, things changed. I noticed something so strange that very night. My husband put his left hand across my neck, while ‘p...

So it's sort of a confession but sort of not?? Well I just- I know he knows that i like him, because it's obvious to him but I just- I always wonder and think about if he likes me too but he just won't admit it because I'm like 4 years younger than him and he's just turned 20 and I'm turning 16 in december and I kinda may or may not look at a lot of uh--- relationship posts and pages on facebook...

So my parents have a pretty Persian cat, appropriately named Purrsia. They adopted her about 10 years ago, she was a stray and after feeding her and caring for her my mom officially adopted her. She was probably on her own for a while, was feral and wild. It took effort by my mom to get her somewhat friendly and relatively housebroken. She at first wouldn't let anyone pet her, barely let my mom...

my sister abuses me verbally and has done so for years. I hate her because of it and i can't do anything.

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honestly, we broke up because he thought I cheated, i didn't. i just want him back, but i know that's not smart for mental health reasons because we weren't very healthy anymore. i miss him. a lot. he was my best friend, he's seen every part of me, seen how i am high as ****, seen me sobbing my eyes out over a woman who wasn't even related to me. i just want my friend back, without the feelings. H...

I 23f broke up with my (30M) ex and out of kindness I didn’t really break down the situation to anyone…so I’m confessing it here. I was with my ex for 3.5 years, at first it was amazing and near the end he was begging me to marry him. However the last 1.5 years were hell, he would freak out at me for going to work (I worked in a bar) and would cause a fight anytime I went out without him. But he’d...

I don't even know what to add to this. Your bf doesn't want to take showers? Just leave wtf??? Also talking about m***ively depressed/suicidal/addicted persons. Get help first and then when you are better get into a relationship. For yourself and especially for the other one

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