It's not a fetish, I've been asked if it is, it's not. But anyway, every guy I've dated has been chubby I'm not against dating skinny/average/fit guys or anything, if my soulmate happens to be one of those I'm not going to be upset if they aren't chubby, but I really prefer if he is. I just love how cuddly they are, and the physical size difference since I'm 100lbs and pretty short. I also generally find bigger guys more attractive, in my experience they're very kind and very funny. I usually don't talk about being into them because the questions and comments are endless, "So you're a feeder?" No, I don't enjoy making someone fatter, if my hypothetical boyfriend wanted to lose weight I wouldn't stop him. "You must be ugly, or fat yourself." Usually said online, but that's just not how attraction works. "How do you have ***??" Like regular people, why would it be different? "Are you using them/him?" No, I'm not evil, Jesus. "I bet you're a fat guy pretending to be a girl!!" I'm not, I will prove I'm a chick if I have to, but why on earth would I have to, how is it that hard to believe? It's annoying, and when I was dating any of my past boyfriends I'd always get rude comments or jokes, or stared at. Sorry for getting off topic, but anyway, I prefer fat guys over other body types, I have since I was a kid, and I think I always will. They're just extremely attractive, and great to hug.